It’s been all fishing, all the time around here lately, and I know that those of you who are interested in the garden, the chickens, the turkeys, the pigs, the recipes, or current events can barely stifle your yawns. But, hey, that’s the nature of seasonality! Each month I get to bore a different segment of my constituency witless.
Those of you in this past month’s segment will be happy to know that striped bass season is winding down. The weather is warming up and the fish will be moving on to cooler waters – a striper’s version of greener pastures. Of course, the bluefish season is just heating up, so we won’t be abandoning fishing entirely, but we’ll be a little less one-note.
I appreciate that not everyone gets as excited about fishing as I do, but I have a theory that everyone gets at least a little excited about fishing. One of the reasons I like having a boat is that Kevin and I can take non-fishermen out on fishing evangelism trips. Last week, we took two.
First was Leo. Leo is five. Leo, to his credit, has been fishing before. He even caught a fish, but it was very small. We took him out for bluefish and we were lucky enough to hook a nice four-pounder almost instantly, because seasickness curtailed our trip. I’d always thought that the green seasickness victims turned was metaphorical, but Leo’s father, our friend Rafe, turned the color of pea soup right before my eyes. Leo seems to have inherited his father’s tendency, and followed suit – but not until after we had the fish in the boat.
Second was my mother. My mother is seventy-two, and hadn’t fished since her childhood, so we were very glad the striped bass hung around long enough to be here when my parents came up from Florida this past weekend.
Fishing with my mother presented a problem that fishing with Leo did not. By law, children have to wear PFDs (personal flotation devices, formerly known as life jackets), but I didn’t have that excuse with my mother. And, although my mother is an extremely competent person and a good swimmer, I wanted her to wear a PFD because she is perhaps the clumsiest person ever to set foot on a boat.
The list of my mother’s good qualities is enviably long. She is one of the smartest people I know. She writes way better than I do. She is kind and generous and circumspect. She is modest and easy-going and forgiving. But she will be the first to tell you that, physically, she is challenged.
She went to Smith College back when they were still doing naked posture pictures and basic motor skills testing. When she arrived in Northampton one late summer day in 1956, they put her through their standard battery of tests and assigned her a phys-ed section.
On the appointed day she showed up for the first class. It took her a while to notice, but eventually she figured out that everyone else in the class had an obvious physical disability. Club foot. One arm. Blind. She was the only one who seemed to have a full complement of functioning body parts. That’s how uncoordinated my mother is.
Our boat has high gunwales, and falling overboard is no mean feat. You’d have to lose your balance in a very spectacular way. And, even if you did that, you’d only risk drowning if you hit your head on the way in; the water is warm enough to pose no threat of hypothermia.
The risk that my mother would lose her balance in that spectacular way, hit her head on the way down, and drown is diminishingly small. Miniscule. Almost non-existent. And the chance that we’d irritate her by requiring her to wear a PFD when we weren’t wearing them is pretty much 100%. A sure thing. But we did it anyway. Because my mother is easy-going and forgiving, she limited her protest to a few wry remarks about geezerdom as we sat her down in the special, stable chair and made sure she knew where all the hand-holds were.
But all was forgiven (I think) because Mom caught a 32-inch striped bass.
It’s always a pleasure to have experienced fishermen like Bob or Gus aboard. And Kevin and I also love being on the boat alone. But there is a particular satisfaction in taking someone who doesn’t fish fishing.
I understand that reading about fishing is not nearly as interesting as actually fishing, and I feel the pain of those of you who never made it to the end of this piece because you clicked on someone else’s much more interesting blog post. And fishing itself isn’t always exciting; not catching fish is pretty damn dull. But I firmly believe every non-fisherman is one big fish away from being a fishing enthusiast, and Kevin and I like to think we’re doing our part.